StingRey wrote:
This post is directly related to "Looking EVIL directly in the eye_epilogue"
I met Ingrid when she was only 3 months working at ZB. She seemed sweet and innocent. Had a session and could tell she had not been in the business for long. Or so I thought. I asked her if she would spend the night with me. She asked a girl if that was allowed and she replied,"Yes, but keep it secret." Come to find out she had already done this in the past. Man, was she taught well! She stated she was working to save up enough money to start a salon with her mom. That time I spent two weeks with her and really fell for her beauty and personality. During this trip I met her family and relatives. Soon afterwards I kicked her enough money to start her business. I have known other women that got out and have done well for themselves in this manner. I really liked this girl and wanted her to succeed in life.
It was during the initial trip that we went to Coronado to visit her aunt. I fell for the cool climate and mountain views. I had been coming to CR since 2003 and had finally found a place I want to live someday. Ingrid also stated that Coronado was her favorite place and wanted to live there also in the future. Two trips later to CR and I was the owner of half and acre in Coronado. Ingrid and myself spent a day looking at properties in the area, before deciding on the perfect spot to build our future home. Somehow marriage came up and it sounded pretty good. She would live in CR with her family and study Architecture at the University. I would fly down and see her every 3 months or so. Of course, I would flip the bill for school. After all, she was my wife and I wanted her to succeed in life.
We were married on 13 October 2007 in San Jose at the Best Western in Irazu. She looked so beautiful in her white dress. And of course I looked quite handsome myself. I think I had a few beers by then. The wedding turned out great. Approximately 40 people showed up. Everyone had enough to eat and drink. My good friend Russell Martin gave the toast. We are still friends by the way! The next day all the family and myself brought the wedding flowers to the church in Cartago. Several days later we enjoyed a nice honeymoon at Paradisus Conchul Resort. Spent 17 days this time and really hated to leave my wife behind.
She decided to apply for a Tourist Visa, so she could visit me in the States. On Dec 3rd, she call crying and stated she had been turned down. I felt so bad for her. I told her we would apply for the Immigrant Visa in the near future.
I decided to visit Ingird for Christmas and she planned on a trip for us to Nicaragua to vist her grandmother and aunt. We spent 3 days in Granada at the Hotel Colonial. Had a nice time, but felt something was wrong during this trip. I arrived at the San Jose Airport to leave CR and was immediately met by a relative of Ingrid. She stated Ingrid's heart belonged to another man and that he had left just the day before my arrival. She also stated the only reason that she married me was to get a visa to see him in America. I was also advised that she went to an attorney and attempted to have my property switched to her name.
She stated she was a bad seed. It all started when she moved in with her aunt in Coronado at a young age. She started stealing money from her to finance her mother's vehicle. Ingrid also met a gringo that worked at the Horseshoe Casino and started phucking him for money. Soon the bullshit started (RFM) and he stopped seeing her. She had told me she had an old boyfriend, but he had died. Come to find out he is still alive. She was just tying up a loose end. So the bottom line is she got use to the money at a young age.
Getting married to me actually was a tactical error on her part. It stopped her from getting the tourist visa that she wanted so badly. All that crazy madness for nothing.
Upon arrival to the states I contacted an attorney in CR and was advised to hire a PI to prove adultry. So, since that time and now I had to act as if everything was okay with me and her. When I was advised the PI had enough evidence, I approached Ladiablo and my wife while they were having dinner at the Sportsman Lodge. I pulled him aside and explained my story. I just wanted him to know what type of person she was and what she was capable of. She told me that she was banned from the Sportsman Lodge and now I know why. So during our conversation she walks over and states,"Ray, I only married you for the visa." I already knew this and was glad that Ladiablo saw her true side.
Currently she is pursuing an old gringo living in Escazu. I hope he reads this post and takes care. Ingrid stated she no longer needs Ladiablo or myself, because she has found a rich gringo.
This nightmare is finally over and I can put it to rest. I was so tired for a couple of months and now I feel better. I can move on with my life. Thank goodness memories fade with time.........
Thanks for the lesson learned guys!