WakingUp wrote:
Boynton wrote:
There are two ways for this to end:
Actually my plan is to live in Escazu 3-4 days a week where I'll work remotely and then take a long weekend in Jaco with her. I'll pay for a place she can live in for free. She just laughs when I tell her this. "In your dreams!"
Is it? I think she'll cave when I'm able to do it.
It's what I want. A novia / hovia / sugarbaby I have a relationship with a few days a week, and by-the-hour putas for random fun on the other days. I'm hoping it's possible.
That's really the gist of my post, and why I posted this.
My advice with hoz, or hovias, NEVER give them money for nuttin...that's when they realize you're a chump and will eventually find a way to royally fleece you.
I have two "hovias" I've known for years, we have great relationships, they Uber right to my door and to my amazement, on time.
They both deliver GFE, Honeymoon experience, novia experience, I pay them well, poon them, we chat, I almost always make a dinner, sometimes a bottle of wine and other "party favors", when we're all done with that, I pay them well, they exit, out of sight, out of mind, that's what I like, and I have a dozen friends here doing the same.
There's no controversial discussions of what I may or may not do when they're not around or if I'm seeing other hoz, they're happy to get consistent paychecks (and referrals), I'm happy to have poon sessions with proven performers I have friendships with (or think I do...)
You WILL NOT have a novia emerge from a ho or hovia, but you can get regulars who will, for the time they are with you, create the mirage that they are, and be happy with pay for play handed to them upon completion of said services, (you DO NOT have to give them free money, you DO NOT have to pay their rent) and you can go out pooning 3 new hoz a day when they're not around and trust me, as long as they're getting their loot, they won't care...