Isra123 wrote:
You are not wired to be a monger. ( We will not go into defining a monger ).
I'd really like to hear your definition of a monger.
My definition of a monger is a someone who travels for sex with prostitutes.
By that definition, I certainly am. I've traveled to multiple countries to have sex with over 30 prostitutes. When I moved to Costa Rica, I chose it secondarily due to it thriving sex industry. Saving myself a bunch of money in airfare and hotels. I am certainly not yet a veteran. But I am not totally wet behind the ears either.
Maybe I am different than most mongers in that I prefer GFE. I find the mechanical, al-la-carte sex boring and unsatisfying. I don't pay for sex. I pay for the illusion of a woman to pretend she feels passionate love for me for an hour or two. Sex is merely the expression of it. And if a hooker starts nickel-and-diming me for every act or refuses to kiss or gives an poor fake orgasm, then it is a big turn off.
My reason for the post is because I met a woman who is skilled far beyond any of the others I have been with. She is simply hypnotic. I know its not real intellectually. But that doesn't stop my feelings and emotions. So I asked for and have gotten some great advice on how to shake the feelings and continue mongering.
Am I am typical monger? No. I am not a typical anything. But I am a monger.