Paco wrote:
Mentioned earlier, not sure if it's a "latin/gringo" connection or "hooker/gringo" connection... Here's my take: So many older guy (self included) get the idea that the young 20'ish latina (hooker or non-pro) is actually attracted to you... They are normally attracted to opportunity to advance. If they're living a poor lifestyle, most anything you offer would advance this.
I'm comfortable with my latina (panama), which I still get to make a couple trips to CR. I think the success is that she's just a 3 years younger. While I enjoy the attention on occassion from a 20-ish chica, I know it's not the charm of my age that's got their motor running. Couple words of advice:
1) Keep things close in age. If you think you want the 20-ish chica, keep the relationship as a pay-as-you-go.
2) Make sure you connect outside the bedroom. Does she have similar interest?
3) Previous mention: "you marry her, you marry her family". This is 100% true. Always remember that "mom, dad, sister, brother" will be at your house often... In most cases, they will live with you at some point. MAKE SURE YOU LIKE THEM TOO! In my case, I've been able to pick the ones that have moved in, mainly nieces who I'm helping with college in the States.
4) Make sure you really connect in the bedroom. I've actually put this as a conversation at the beginning. Informed her that Paco must have a steady supply of enthusiastic play (it's a requirement, not option). Being married once before, I know that this is often something that declines over time, mainly on the womans part. I CLEARLY stated, "it's a requirement" that she can perform personally... Or in the absense of performance, we will outsource the job. Hence, I make a trip or two to CR annually. In some instances, the trip is just to get a tune-up.
Paco I am not disagreeing with your advise, just reminding you (all) that there are EXCEPTIONS TO EVERYTHING!
My Colombiana wife was ONLY about 2 years younger than I. We had a lot of common interests (even professions) outside the bedroom, the only family she had anywhere near us was her son, the sex was great and constant; TILL SHE GOT TO THE USA, THEN IT WAS NON EXISTANT!!!
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