Ironman44 wrote:
I committed two fatal errors, (marriage to, and then getting a hot 25 year old Tica pregnant), and now trying not to commit a third, which would be getting her a Visa to the USA. We have been married since the middle of 2009 but I haven't pulled the trigger on getting her a VISA for all kinds of reasons, primarily because I don't want to be paying alimony, in addition to Ch*ld support, which would ultimately be the case.
I am done with the save a ho mentality, finally, but now have a Ch*ld on the way, a girl, (and would prefer that she not become a CR hoe in the future). So while I am financially supporting my wife now and will continue through her pregnancy, (she is due in the next few months), I need to maintain a happy facade. My plan is to be there for the birth, get the necessary paperwork completed to get the Ch*ld US citizenship, return back to the States with promises to my wife of her imminent VISA, and wait for my Ch*ld's paperwork to be completed for US Citizenship. Then I bring the Ch*ld to the States, under the guise of meeting my family, and with the promise to return muy pronto. But I will not return the Ch*ld to her. I will raise her here in the States. The onus is then on her to take action to get the Ch*ld back, correct?
So despite the lunacy and all the moral bullshit inherent in my plan, what's the likelihood of it's success? (Before I close, yes, I am absolutely certain the Ch*ld is mine, but will of course get testing done upon her birth to verify before applying for her US Citizenship). Please help a brother out and let me know your thoughts, words of wisdom, and any unsavory comments you feel like I might deserve. All will be appreciated!
NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! You got a hoe pregnant.....LOL I think if it was me I would go ahead and end it. My life, the relationship, the baby, and all the problems to come later in life. Do what you want! I think the main thing is do you really want the baby? Not sure of your age, but can you raise a baby and still be around to see it after 18 years. I know some of these guys on this site are pretty old and would kick the bucket in the next 15 years. LOL. It's not kidnapping man; it's your Ch*ld! The best thing you can do is get the Ch*ld out of Costa Rica and back to the USA. Believe it or not the government will protect its citizens in giving circumstances. Your plan sounds good, but you made one mistake; YOU TOLD THE WHOLE WORLD!!! Better hope none of these rats squeal. And also with your plan expect the unexpected cause you know she isnt gonna just let you take her future with you like that. She might be a puta and dumb but when it comes to street smarts them hoes have ya number. You got alot of problems if this post is true! Maybe you should consider other avenues. Usually good Intentions are cruel inventions! Anyway best of luck to ya. Oh yea one thing I forgot to mention the bitch is broke. For her to do anything will cost alot of money. Chances are, just like everything else in her life, she would just take the ez way out! I would never return to CR if this happens.