Jawanker wrote:
Thanks Boynton, appreciate the post. Stay safe down there. I'm sure your ladies appreciate the financial help.
Reality check: These ladies are women driven to new lows and sometimes desperation by forces they consider beyond their control. This virus and the economic fallout just adds fuel to that fire. While they remain people deserving of human decency the same as me, our relationship continues to be transactional: monger and whore. It is as it has always been. When new providers enter the game it will not be their first choice. Existing providers will face increased competition in a smaller market. Don't expect logic or gratitude. In fact, expect the opposite. Part of "staying safe" is to bear that in mind and keep your guard up. Enjoy the hobby but don't confuse the fantasy with reality. Renter beware.
Having said that, the current situation calls for a bit more humanity. I broke one of my own rules "Sin sexo no hay paraíso
" to give my feverish regular the money I would normally give her. I consider it a donation, not a pre-payment. I am well aware her "appreciation" is that of the needy. Helping her also gave me a measure of comfort. It was not and will never be a change in the relationship. Perhaps something to keep in mind for those that send money in these times.