"And not selfishly obsess over your own sexual desire!" Gringaism summarized very well in plain English, thank you for helping me with that Phoenix .
I am not at that bracket yet, don't have to be, gringas ain't limiting it to a guy's Golden Years, they are doing it 2 months after the first newborn--it's all over at that point and they know they got you because of your instinctual love, unless you have a plan.
That's why there is the gulch, and CRT, and gringos mongering anywhere they can afford and escape mainly to just get laid like they used to. From 30 year olds to grandpa's, a mix of divorced guys, smart dudes who never had to go that route, and married guys who have to make up stories about biz or fishing trips.
Or even a recent poster who is bringing his wife along to SJ and going to tell her he's "going golfing" so go get a manicure/massage and I'll be back later.
The bottom line is, no surprise, married gringas hold puss out as something to be earned thru compliance.
Tell your sons/grandsons, if they don't have her sign an easy out pre-nup (or post marriage ante-nup, legal in most states) you are disinheriting him. Not that she'll get yours, inheritance is not marital property, but to protect your blood who are young and naive and who's testosterone levels are thru the roof and very easy prey. That'll keep her gringaism in some sort of check.
Best advice you can give your USA young un's is to go see a divorce lawyer before the "I do's". He'll tell him exactly what I am saying. 50% D rate in the US for the nubes and I'll bet 95% of them are not protected.
I hear it all the time--"I can't ask her to do that", or "I don't have anything". True, you don't now, you are young and just getting into your first career, but in 5,6,7-20 years your portfolio will be getting greener and greener--hopefully not all for her. And you or your kin have to have the balls to ask her to sign it. If she balks--they all will, ask her why? If it comes as far as to go to court, the pre-nup will only be approved if it is fair and square, so why is she complaining. And it will keep her gringaism in check.
And alot of guys don't know pre-nups will cover custody/visitation issues, and ALSO keep your ass out of the court house for the most part, a D lawyers honey pot.
The typical advice we give to our K*ds must now include pre-nups. No pre-nup, no marriage son. It ain't just for the rich who all have them. It levels the playing field. It's a very effective vaccination to fight a rampant virus in the US known as: nopussforuyoualreadyhadittwicethismonthitis.