ColombiaLover wrote:
Thank you all for some great options!
Now let me ask you all a very frank question. I am planning to take my favorite. She is a respectable girl. She has a full-time job, but works on the side. She's not a HDR hard core, but she does work. She dresses nicely and behaves properly. But she is definitely from a lower middle class barrio (heck, I grew up in a lower middle class barrio myself here in the U.S., but came out OK). Do the kind of people who might frequent some of the nice restaurants you've recommended make people like my favorite feel uncomfortable (or me feel uncomfortable for taking her)? I ask because I've run into that in the past in Medellin.....when I've taken a barrio girl (also nicely dressed and well mannered) to a nice place in Poblado. I wasn't sure if Costa Ricans are like Paisas. I personally don't care what people think, but I don't want to put my favorite in a position to feel uncomfortable. Of course, I'll eventually ask my favorite which place she prefers, but I wanted to get your opinion first before I get to that step. Any thoughts?
It depends. Latinos have a sixth sense on these kind of things, and the odds are they will know... especially if amiguita comes across as being out of your class. If you believe your favorita is going to feel self-conscious about being seen in public with you, and this truly matters to you... maybe a quiet domicilio dinner in your room will take the pressure off both of you. At any rate... you are the boss... you are paying her... and you call the shots. Do whatever makes you happy. Just my two cents.