Romulus,
I don't live there but have my network of friends & spend what I consider enough time down their. It isn't so much bringing a Latina back with me as much as it is them coming to visit me. I always seemed to hit it off with many families I visited & they always invited me to stay with them & I returned this offer to them in the States. They have their own Visas & $$$ so they can do what they want. Some are checking out if they like the USA for attending college etc. MANY just love to go shopping at our mega stores & malls
. They are just friends & nothing going on as far as what we consider a lot of fun but it is fun to just entertain & learn from them. It helps that they can stay at my place to cut down on their expenses also. They have got to trust you a lot to do this plus their families have to know & trust you.
This takes time & you have to earn this trust & if several come as a group they feel much safer also. If they knew I ever mongered around they would lose much trust in me. I would not blame them
! I will say one thing about entertaining these Latinas. I have had more honest to goodness fun with them than many gringas I was sleeping with. Some are just so much fun with the cultural differences. Many are so full of life & uninhibited personality
. I am just not one of those guys that has to be phucking someone to have fun. It all flows where it naturally wants to go & I don't see being pushy or weird about anything. Better for me to have good friends I can trust. I get enough of what I value when I need it
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It could be fun to bring some P4P types back to the States but these are the most problematic type of Latinas in my book. The ones from a better economic class behave in a much more behaved or predicatable fashion
. It is much easier to trust the better economic class. The P4P type can not get visas much of the time because they do not have many assets other than their pu$$ies & the Govt senses they will not return if allowed to go to the USA. They could probably get a Visa to Cuba for example much easier because the CR govt feels they will return from there.
I have always kept things very separate in my life. It is pretty easy for me to read people accurately I believe. I can see who would be offended by trying to be more than just friends & the ones that want to be more than just friends or like P4P. I just don't see blurring these lines.
I have learned so much from being around the different economic classes of Latinas. What is amazing to me is some of the poorer ones are the real physical beauties & also very sweet. Less attitude & issues it seems also. The better economic class of Latinas I have entertained in the States would never think I do P4P is my belief. They know I don't have to do this to have women around but if you like hassle free sex I believe it is the smartest way to go.
Just in watching the Panochitas series of movies where you can break it all down in detail I see many of the differences between Latinas & Gringas. Latinas always seem much softer & more genuine to me
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Circus,
I like your posts like these where you talk about your cool past & interesting life you have lived. Most people do not have this type of life & colorful family experience
! Stop being so hard on yourself & your old 2" pecker & things will get better I promise
. None of us are what we once were that is for sure but you can always grow your life in different ways. I enjoy the fact that I have made some Ticas lives better & it wasn't by giving them $$$. I have some really nice Tica & Tico friends. This can be better than mongering around too me
. It is all GOOD!